| Accross Western North Dakota many Character Counts programs have been initiated in schools and commununities. More TEAM members are needed. To be involved in the Character Counts TEAM all you need to do is... TEACH
Tell children that their character counts — that their success and happiness will depend on who they are inside, not what they have or how they look. Tell them that people of character know the difference between right and wrong and guide their thoughts and actions by six basic rules of living (the “Six Pillars of Character”): trustworthiness, respect, responsibility, fairness, caring, and good citizenship. Explain the meaning of these words and use examples from your own life, history, and the news. ENFORCE
Instill the “Six Pillars of Character” by rewarding good behavior (usually, praise is enough) and by discouraging all instances of bad behavior by imposing fair, consistent consequences that prove you are serious about character. ADVOCATE
Continuously encourage children to live up to the “Six Pillars of Character” in all their thoughts and actions. Be an advocate for character. Don’t be neutral about the importance of character nor casual about improper conduct. Be clear and uncompromising that you want and expect your children to be trustworthy, respectful, responsible, fair, caring, and good citizens. MODEL
Be careful and self-conscious about setting a good example in everything you say and do. Hold yourself to the highest standards of character by honoring the “Six Pillars of Character” at all times. Everything you do, and don’t do, sends a message about your values. Be sure your messages reinforce your lessons about doing the right thing even when it is hard to do so. When you slip (and most of us do), act the way you want your children to behave when they act improperly — be accountable, apologize sincerely, and resolve to do better. |
